Comments on: How Do You Love? http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/01/26/how-do-you-love/ tonight we drink to youth. Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:01:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: twentyorsomething http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/01/26/how-do-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-93 twentyorsomething Tue, 10 Feb 2009 15:07:28 +0000 http://twentyorsomething.wordpress.com/?p=988#comment-93 Sarah - Your personal tagline of que sera sera is definitely an almost daily reminder that I try to tell myself. Sometimes I think that I'm still searching for love. Other times I look at where I am now and declare that I'm too busy, have too much going on, that I'm really enjoying where I am right now. Depending on the time of day and the situation, I tend to believe both to be the case. What it comes down to -- for me, personally, that is -- is that I've realized that it will find me when I'm ready -- whatever it is I've been looking for. I may not know when it is, but I can't seek it out. I just have to be open to it when it comes, let it happen, as you say, and that may be the most difficult part for me, honestly. It's a good thing I have best friends like you to help me through that and give me that little nudge (or kick in the ass, depending). ;) And the poem! I had forgotten about that. I think it's Queen of Hearts, but suddenly I can't be sure. Maybe that's for the best, actually. Oh, college. Let's not open up that can of worms again ;) Thanks for your thoughts -- you know I always take them to heart. Love, Susan Sarah – Your personal tagline of que sera sera is definitely an almost daily reminder that I try to tell myself. Sometimes I think that I’m still searching for love. Other times I look at where I am now and declare that I’m too busy, have too much going on, that I’m really enjoying where I am right now. Depending on the time of day and the situation, I tend to believe both to be the case.

What it comes down to — for me, personally, that is — is that I’ve realized that it will find me when I’m ready — whatever it is I’ve been looking for. I may not know when it is, but I can’t seek it out. I just have to be open to it when it comes, let it happen, as you say, and that may be the most difficult part for me, honestly. It’s a good thing I have best friends like you to help me through that and give me that little nudge (or kick in the ass, depending). ;)

And the poem! I had forgotten about that. I think it’s Queen of Hearts, but suddenly I can’t be sure. Maybe that’s for the best, actually. Oh, college. Let’s not open up that can of worms again ;)

Thanks for your thoughts — you know I always take them to heart.

Love,

Susan

]]> By: defygravity84 http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/01/26/how-do-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-92 defygravity84 Sun, 01 Feb 2009 23:21:38 +0000 http://twentyorsomething.wordpress.com/?p=988#comment-92 Oh, and btw, the photo reminded me of your poem... but the title eludes me. Queen of Hearts? Ace of Hearts? Please forgive me for the memory lapse. Oh, and btw, the photo reminded me of your poem… but the title eludes me. Queen of Hearts? Ace of Hearts? Please forgive me for the memory lapse.

]]> By: defygravity84 http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/01/26/how-do-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-91 defygravity84 Sun, 01 Feb 2009 23:20:29 +0000 http://twentyorsomething.wordpress.com/?p=988#comment-91 You know, I think that no matter how hard we wish for love and for that perfect romance, it never happens until we're totally content with the way things are. And when love does finally find us, we have to just let things be, and to allow them to flourish and develop on their own. I've been saying it so much lately that it's starting to sound a little bit cliche, but I really believe in que sera sera. You know, I think that no matter how hard we wish for love and for that perfect romance, it never happens until we’re totally content with the way things are. And when love does finally find us, we have to just let things be, and to allow them to flourish and develop on their own. I’ve been saying it so much lately that it’s starting to sound a little bit cliche, but I really believe in que sera sera.

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